Tuesday, October 6, 2009

William Kason Stephens

So I am really late with posting this, but I've been busy (kinda). I think it's more I haven't quite gotten back into the swing of things. For all of you who like to hear how the birth went I'll tell you my story, because I like to tell it. It was my dream delivery!

Wednesday Sept. 16 I went in for my midwife apt. I was about 4 days overdue. I was ready for little Will to come out so I asked her if she would strip my membranes. But because my appointment was later in the afternoon she said no but I could come in Thursday morning and they would do it. (they don't like to do it later in the afternoon so that you don't go into labor in the middle of the night..... little did they know). So I went home thinking it wouldn't be for the next couple days.

At about 3:30 when I went to pick Jase up from school I started to have some contractions (very little, but they seemed different from braxton hicks). During dinner and while we were putting the kids to bed they started to get stronger. They were strong enough that while I was reading scriptures and stories to the kids I would have to stop every now and then to breath, but still not horribly painful. I tried to lay down and get some sleep after the kids were in bed and rested for a little, but kept being woken up from the contractions. So I decided to take a bath (baths are wonderful for contractions). It didn't feel so bad so I tried to get more sleep, but that just didn't work, so I got back into the tub. By this time it was probably about 11:30pm-12:00pm or so. I stayed in there a while and the contractions were starting to come often and get stronger so I wanted to time them. I got out of the tub and went to the computer where I found a contraction timer online. I sat there and tried to distract myself with playing some computer games. Every time I would have a contraction I would start the timer, then stop when the contraction was over. While I was having the contraction I couldn't sit anymore. I would have to get up and lean over my bed and try and make myself comfortable. After doing this for a while and my contractions were about 3 min apart or so and lasting 2-3 min I decided I should call my midwife. Of course while I was talking to her I didn't have a contraction so I sounded fine. She told me to go to the hospital to be checked. I called my mom to have her come down and watch the kids for me (at about 1:30am) and me and Keldon were off to the hospital.
Once I got to the hospital Keldon dropped me off at the front and parked the car. By the time I got to the elevator he was there. We went upstairs and they had me go into the room to check and see how far I was. I finally layed down for them and I was at 8 cm dilated. They sent me to a delivery room, which was just a few steps away. As I was standing by the bed (I did not want to lay down on that bed) they told me they needed to put an IV in my arm but as she was trying I was standing putting my weight on my arm. Needless to say she couldn't get the IV in. They kept telling me to get on the bed and I told them I didn't want to. They decided to check me again while I was standing there and I was fully dilated and then my water broke. There was maconium in the fluid so they called in more baby nurses. They told me I really needed to get on the bed or I was going to have the baby on the floor. So finally I got on the bed. I told the nurses I needed to push and they told me to go ahead. So I did, and after some major pain and just a couple pushes, there was Will. They had to take him right away because of the risk from the maconium. But he ended up being fine and while I was stitched up I got to hold my little guy. My midwife finally got there about 10-15 min. after Will was born and they had to call in the Dr. that was there to stitch me up. The wonderful nurses were the ones who delivered my baby.

Little time line for you:
*call mom to come downstairs 1:30am
*got to hospital about 1:40-1:45am
*upstairs at hospital to be checked 1:50am
*William was born 2:06am

After about an hour they decided to send me and Will down to mother-baby so I got up and walked to the bathroom then got in the wheelchair, and we went down together.
I didn't get to see Will again until about 7am because he was having some respiratory problems. They took x-rays and did blood tests. I went into the nursery and they wanted me to feed him then see how he was breathing. He did fine so I got to take him to my room. He just had some of the maconium in his chest which made him breath faster. He's fine now though.

He weighted 8lb 11oz and was 21in long born at 2:06am







Me in the nursery making sure little Will is okay.

Jase holding he baby brother for the first time.

Zoe holding her baby brother for the first time.

Grandma Julie and Will

Grandma Stephens and Will

Zoe giving baby brother kisses. She LOVES him.




Going home!



5 comments:

Katie Lane said...

WOW shell!!! I didn't know!
Just so you know, we haven't been avoiding coming to see you on purpose. Jack has been sick for a while, he's on meds, but it's not going away and I don't dare come over and see your babe. But we'll be over soon!!!
That is wild he came so fast, and that you did it totally natural, good for you!!! He was BIG!!! So did you like the natural vs. epidural? I wanna hear all about it, hopefully I'll be over soon!
Congrats, he is so so cute.

Natalee said...

WOW Shelly!! That is incredible. I am sure hoping that mine happens as quickly as that :) What a CUTE baby, and looks like Jase and Zoe are very excited to have him.

Congrats!

Stephens said...

He is such a doll. You are a champ. I can't wait to see him!

Gina said...

Shelley,
I know this is late, but CONGRATS. Little Will is absolutely beautiful. And good for you for sticking up for yourself as a women who knows her body in the hospital. I hope we can get together soon for a playdate or something now that we live in UT. Congrats again!
Gina Parker

Jessica said...

I've been slow about checking blogs. Holy Crap! I can't believe how fast your little guy came! I'm way jealous. Maybe I'll get lucky with my second baby.